There are all kinds of emotions tied up in moms. We have expectations of what a good mom looks like. The truth is, we all do the best we can in any given moment. Behaviors are learned.
When I realized that I could actually influence the relationship between my mom and myself, everything changed for me. I started having intimate conversations with my mom preferenced with the fact that it was all about me and really had nothing to do with her; like how I didn’t feel “good enough” growing up and how all I ever wanted was to feel unconditionally loved. The truth of the matter is until we know how to give unconditional love, we can’t receive unconditional love.
Today I pray, that whether our mom is still walking this earth or not; that we find a place of peace, love and appreciation in our hearts for them. In doing so, we carry that peace and love into all of our relationships; including our relationship with ourselves.
And so it is!
blessings & love,
Until next time, BE radiant, radical & real!
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