Real Talk • Radical Love • Radiant Living
what’s really important anyway?
RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!!!! We all want to love and feel loved. So why do we hide from them? What are we afraid of? Vulnerability! Vulnerability is like being naked under a microscope, exposing everything. Although relationships can be hard, they are platforms for our...
expectations are premeditated resentments
Think about it, when we expect someone to show up or do something a certain way, we have potentially set ourselves up for disappointment and resentment. This is particularly true when we expect others to read our minds, instead of verbalizing our desires. I will use...
make the first move
If you don’t feel like you are receiving enough love or attention, go give some, Be loving and attentive. How often do we wait, blame, and/or be a victim about not getting what we think we want? The miracle happens when we give without any expectations.Expectations...
looking out into nothingness
As I sat looking out over the Pacific Ocean, all I could see was water, endless water. No human movement at all, no boats, no planes, no people in the water, just endless water. In its massive endless beauty, it just is. I am reminded of the peace and love that is...
how to feel more energetic
An immediate energy boost is to let go of any and all negative feelings toward anyone or anything. No small task for sure. So, let’s just start today by forgiving someone. It might be the person who took your parking space or someone who took your innocence. Often...
how do I lose energy?
I love the way author Carolyn Myss talks about energy being like money. This is my take on what I remember. Say we were born with $100 dollars worth of energy allotted for each day of our life. Because of all the baggage that we have picked up and held on to over the...
does our outside reflect our inside?
What do you see when you look in the mirror? Are you reflecting the uniqueness that is you; or are you trying to fit in and be something that you are not? We all have different looks and tastes for a reason. Have you given yourself permission to “feel” your own...
what do you see?
If you were to stand in front of a mirror naked, what would you see? Most of us don’t see the Divine Spirit that we really are. Most of us see flesh, and then we judge it; firm, flabby, better, worse, older, strong, weak. Some have never taken a good look, for fear of...
creating a boundary; not a wall
Walls are created from fear. Boundaries are created from love, we teach people how to treat us, by setting boundaries. We can’t love our neighbor, spouse, friend, or child, if we don’t love ourselves. We just can’t. Boundaries are created out of loving ourselves and...