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Wednesday, August 10, 2011 Being organized is liking things in order. Being rigid is having to have things a certain way - YOUR WAY! So how can you tell if you are being rigid? If you feel it in your gut when things aren’t done exactly how you want them to be done. I...

Tuesday, July 26, 2011 Clarity - “the quality of being clear” “the quality of transparency or purity” - Those are great definitions! I certainly want clarity - don’t you? When I am in a dream - it seems so real - sometimes I wake up, and for a moment, I am not sure...

Wednesday, July 20, 2011 Living in the moment is a moment by moment choice - right? It's about training our minds  that tend to run amuck. Try and focus your attention on one thing, how long can you hold a thought? The good news is, brain specialist have come to...

Tuesday, July 19, 2011 Neurologists have come to learn that our brains aren’t hardwired they have plasticity (google neuroplasticity for more info.) It’s easier to create new habits than it is to break old habits. So instead of focusing on what you don’t want - which...

Monday, July 18, 2011 I took this picture on my Bali trip - as I was thumbing through my pictures - it slapped me in the face. I look at it now & what it represents to me is - my mother on one side of me with her thoughts and idea & my dad on the other side...

Thursday, July 14, 2011 Why do we make relationships so hard? Because until we know better, we can’t do better. We mirror behavior that we have learned from a parent or someone else significant in our life, usually the behavior that we didn’t like growing up - but...

Wednesday, July 13, 2011 What grounds you? When do you feel most peaceful? For me, it’s when I am close to a body of water. I have always dreamed of living on the water. When my dad dropped dead on a golf course at 58, I realized that someday may never come. So I...

Wednesday, July 13, 2011 One of the things that I love about animals is they truly live in the moment. Have you ever noticed an animal that looks like he is thinking about the past and all the struggles that he has been through. It’s very rare to see an unhappy...

Wednesday, July 13, 2011 I was thinking about control and letting go today as I wrote Emotional Health and I came across this video from my Bali trip in March. It seems perfect when I think about how I had to let go of “getting my house on the lake” in order to get...