“You cannot change what you do not acknowledge”. Dr. Phil’s Life Law #4

In other words if I’m having a hard time with situations and people, what’s the common denominator? ME!

The only way to begin to change our lives is to realize it starts, here. That means with me and you.

We can ask ourself, what part do I play in these relationships? If we want things to change, it’s time to stop blaming others and start taking responsibility. Gandhi said “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”

We have been reacting to people and situations the same way over and over again thinking that maybe this time things will be different. It has been said that the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again expecting the results to be different.

It all starts with our minds. “You can never solve a problem on the level on which it was created” Einstein. In other words the problem might have been created from a mind set of “wanting to be right.” In order to solve the problem, we may want to come from a place of “choosing to be happy.”

Today, I pray that we become aware of our thoughts and actions and realize how powerful we are to change everything, especially how we feel inside, which is where it counts the most. May we feel loving and lovable.

And so it is!

blessings & love,

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Until next time, BE radiantradical & real!

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